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Buruk sangka.

First impression.

Two things which somehow related where first impression could lead to buruk sangka. For an example, a big guy with dyed hair and super fierce or scary face and he walks like a gangster passed your way. Of course, anyone will have this you-are-a-gangster kind of impression on him. So you tell your best friend, ‘oh my god! This man is so scary! He must be a gangster!!!’ But suddenly, he smiled at you and went inside a mosque nearer. So? Does that means he is a gangster? Maybe. But his gangster-like dress up doesn’t make him one. And now, you are sinned. Why? Buruk sangka lah. Xpasal2 dah dosa la buruk sangka dgn org. Worse, your sin is doubled. First, buruk sangka. Second, you share it with your friend. And congratulations! Now, both of you are sinned. Haha. Ok. Sorry there is a little bit of sarcasm but I do not intend to provoke anyone. Peace! Tehee~

 What I am trying to say is, do not ever judge people! Especially people you don’t know. You will just spread a fictitious statement that you made up and add up your sins which already are a bucketload!! To an addition, you told everyone about him and what do you think your friends will believe? Of course they will believe you since you are the one that ‘saw’ him. Plus, people will believe what they hear first. So just imagine now how much fold your sins are! And you’ll find it’s hard to apologize to that particular person since you do not know him at all and you might forget his face!

Okay, let say you have bad impression on a very quiet classmate or anyone you know. He doesn’t have so many friends and he is kind of invisible in the class. And then one day, you have this misunderstanding situation with him. He has borrowed your reference book (for example) and promised that he will return it back the next week. You were like. Okay laaa.. I’ll lend you my book. Even though deep inside your heart you were reluctant since you don’t like him so much. When next week came, he didn’t show up. You are so angry because you suddenly feel like using the reference book of yours that you have never even touched before. So you express your anger to your friends and told them all the bad thoughts you have for him. There will be two probabilities. First, if your friends know what kind of person the person you are talking about really is, they will hate you! Second, if your friends buy each of your words, they will hate him and you might destroy someone’s life!!(haha hyperbola gile weh!) Everyone’s now talking bad things about him. But next thing you know is he has got into car accident and is now in hospital. Now you know why he can’t return your reference book right?one word.

 MALU NYAAA!!!! 

Dah la dah bagi tahu semua orang!! So mcm mana sekarang? Nak kena pergi terang dekat semua orang ke yg ko dah salah sangka? Woaahh!! Tercalar la lu punya ego wa ckp lu!! Malu gileee..*sambil buat muka mengejek* hahahaha.

Moral of the story….

I know not to judge people is something hard to do isn’t it? I admit, I do judge a book by its cover. I am lying if I say I never have bad impression on anyone! But at least, try not to speak up your mind? Do not spread some stories that you yourself are unsure how far the truth is. It won’t just save someone’s reputation and dignity, it will save yours too and plus, you do not want to accumulate your sins, aren’t you? =)